Steps to Feeling Better
When you experience depression and anxiety, it affects how you feel, your thoughts, what you say and what you do. It may also affect your relationship with your partner and others. Taking care of yourself and your baby can be difficult.
Understand Your Illness
Postpartum Depression is the most common medical problem after having a baby. You can increase your ability to care for yourself and your baby by having a better understanding about:
- The signs of postpartum depression and anxiety
- Anxiety disorders that you may experience after birth
Speak to Your Doctor or Nurse
There are different ways to treat depression. When depression is left untreated, it can have serious effects on you and your baby. You may need counselling and/or medication to get better.
- Talk with your partner when thinking about treatment
- Discuss the pros and cons of each treatment option with your doctor or nurse and make an informed decision
- You may need to try a few options until you find what works best for you
- Be prepared for a long recovery, postpartum depression cannot be fixed overnight
Take Care of Yourself
There are a number of things you can do to help yourself feel better faster.
Healthy eating is about feeling great, having more energy, coping with daily stress and improving your mood.
Aim for the “3” – eat three meals a day, eat every three hours, and include three food groups at each meal.
Eating Well with Canada’s Food Guide gives you the nutrients you need.
Vegetables, fruit and grain products provide the right kind of carbohydrates and fibre needed for energy and a healthy blood sugar. Meat and alternatives, such as eggs and beans, and milk products, improve your mood, enhance your concentration, control your appetite, and help you sleep.
Tips for Healthy Eating
- Feed yourself, whenever you feed your baby
- Start your day with a protein-rich breakfast i.e. egg, toast, and an orange
- Carry healthy snacks with you such as a handful of nuts
- Eat 2 servings of fish each week rich in omega 3 fats i.e. salmon or sardines
- Drink more water
- Limit your caffeine
- Reduce food high in fat, sugar and salt
Trouble eating? Have a fruit yogurt smoothie
Trouble sleeping? A snack such as wholegrain cereal with milk before bed may help
For more support, call 416-338-7600 and speak with a Public Health Nurse.
Printable Version: Improve you Mood with Food
Sleep can affect your mood, short term memory, and your ability to manage stress. It is important to make time to sleep and get rest after your baby is born. You may have difficulty falling asleep or you may wake up after a short while and not be able to get back to sleep.
What to Avoid Before Going to Bed
- Heavy meals
- Drinking too many fluids
- Bright light
- Smoking and alcohol
- Watching television, reading, doing work in the bedroom
- Caffeine after 4:00 p.m.
Ways to Unwind and Relax Before Going to Bed
- Have a light snack like milk and toast
- Have a warm bath/shower
- Create a good sleep environment: comfortable, not too warm or too cold and minimal light and noise
- Listen to soft music
- Practice breathing exercises and meditation
- If breastfeeding your baby keeps you up at night, try nursing in the side-lying position or have a partner/caregiver feed your baby at night. This may mean pumping and feeding expressed breast milk.
If none of these tips help you sleep, please see your doctor or a nurse.
Getting support from others can help you cope when you feel stressed. Support can come from your family, friends, community members and organizations. It is helpful to understand who you have in your life that can provide support after you have your baby. Don’t be afraid to ask for help.
This circle can help you identify who provides support in your life. It shows the four areas of support with examples for each area to help you build the supports that can help you.
Is the helping hand from others to allow you to focus on rest and feeding your baby.
- Helping parents get more sleep
- Childcare support
- Help with cooking and cleaning
- Breastfeeding support
Includes the support you receive from others when sharing your feelings and emotions.
- Friends and mother to mother support
- Partner and family support
- Religious and spiritual support
- Talking to supportive people
Health and Wellbeing
Is the support from a doctor or nurse when treatment is needed.
- Public health home visiting
- Exercise, being active, relaxation, meditation
- Counselling and therapy
Is learning more about postpartum depression and anxiety.
- Books, pamphlets, DVD’s, online links
- Information sessions
- Postpartum depression support groups
- Parenting classes
Tell your partner or caregiver how you are feeling and what you need from them. They can play an important role in how you may be feeling and the amount of anxiety you may have. Attend doctor and therapy sessions together.
Remember:You are not alone, there is help.
Physical activity can help with depression and make you feel better both physically and emotionally. It may feel like you have no time or energy to be physically active but regular activity can help you feel better faster.
Benefits of Exercise
- Releases chemicals in the body that make you feel happier
- Increases your energy level
- Helps you sleep
- Decreases your stress
- Makes you feel better about yourself as you get out of the house and meet new people
- Takes your mind off of your daily worries and negative thoughts and gives you something else to think about
You can build physical activity into your everyday routines. Every little bit counts. Take the stairs instead of the elevator, stretch a few minutes every hour, play with your children, walk instead of driving for short trips, work in the garden or shovel the snow.
Physical activity is cheap, easily available, fun and a good way you can spend time with your baby.
The Toronto FUN Guide has many programs and activities that may interest you.
Consult with your doctor or nurse before you exercise to make sure there are no medical reasons keeping you from being active.
Video: Road to Recovery.Couples discuss the support they received from the health care team in their road to recovery.